Just curious to see if this is as accurate as it’s been said to be since the beginning of time. I’ve heard both sides of it. I’ve heard with enough confidence there is no such thing and I’ve heard the opposite, that no amount of confidence will win the girl. My experience personally has always been zero so I’m on the accurate side of the statement pretty much. Any thoughts?

  • olivier@lemmy.fait.chEnglish
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    2 days ago

    There’s no such thing as a “dating league”. People are selective, but the nature of that selectivity depends on the individual.

    Exactly this. I can’t deal with anymore “rating” of people’s attractiveness, as daily seen on Reddit and the such. Beauty, attractiveness, and overall interest a person generates is highly (if not solely) dependent on said interest’s other end.

    There is something deeply flawed in trying to put people into small, numbered boxes.