Just curious to see if this is as accurate as it’s been said to be since the beginning of time. I’ve heard both sides of it. I’ve heard with enough confidence there is no such thing and I’ve heard the opposite, that no amount of confidence will win the girl. My experience personally has always been zero so I’m on the accurate side of the statement pretty much. Any thoughts?
Not everyone is attracted to everyone just like not everyone likes every flavour of food. A lot of it is about being in the right place & right time.
No amount of confidence will reverse the opinion of someone who is fundamentally not attracted to you. Zero confidence is externalized through observable behaviours that will deter people who would otherwise be attracted to you.
If you want a loving relationship your best bet is to expand your social circles. Spending time with friends, meeting their friends, and making new friends. Join a hobby club or a team sport. The person you meet through friends is probably gonna be more compatible with you than the person you matched on tinder for superficial reasons.