Just curious to see if this is as accurate as it’s been said to be since the beginning of time. I’ve heard both sides of it. I’ve heard with enough confidence there is no such thing and I’ve heard the opposite, that no amount of confidence will win the girl. My experience personally has always been zero so I’m on the accurate side of the statement pretty much. Any thoughts?

  • sunzu2@thebrainbin.org
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    3 days ago

    Women typically look for other things first, and looks are second or third or lower depending on the woman.

    Last 20 years kinda proving this wrong tbh… Women go for looks as much as men a least for casual

    When marriage is on the table looks still matter but class and status are likely more important more so for women tho

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      3 days ago

      That’s fair. Could be a generational thing or an age thing too. I’m a married older millennial. I can see where a girl just looking for something casual would prioritize looks higher.

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        It’s a practical thing. If you have no information on someone other than their looks and general demeanor, then how else would you decide who to get to know? If you already know them enough to have a gist of their personality, then looks would probably go way down the list for both men and women.