To preface none of my fellow admins know about this post due to the language that I am using.
Although I do believe that they would be supportive of this as they care about our users just as much as I do.

I just had a run in with a user asking for help who then deleted their post and comments soon after.

If you see any users asking for help I would personally recommend a couple of things to look out for:

  • Check their profile;
    • how old’s the account?
    • what kinds of posts and comments are they making?
      • Are they the kind of user you’d be cool with being friends with?
    • Do they have history of deleting posts/comments? If so why? and how often?
  • Check the modlog;
    • have they done or said anything that warrented themselves getting banned or their posts/comments removed?

I’m making this post as I’m personally frustrated seeing posts and comments being removed as it actively harms instances, communities, and most importantly users.

I absolutely despise when I go a saved post or comment thread that I wanted to reread later only to find that I can’t cause the post/thread’s been deleted by a single user.

There’s so much useful or interesting and creative things that people care about and also want to share in terms of life experiences or just having a cool thing to collaborate and work on.

  • having this be ruined by individuals that want to ‘dine and dash’ basically ruins this.

Honestly Fuck you.
If you ‘help farm’ especially I will find you and I will ban you because you are actively harming users who spend their precious time, effort, and humanly love to do cool stuff here on the Fediverse.

  • Blaze (he/him) @lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
    1·
    9 days ago

    I liked Admiral Patrick’s take on it: ultimately we cannot control others, only ourselves, so he prevents brand-new accounts from being able to make posts in those communities in the first place, knowing that there is such a high likelihood that they are an attention vampire that will leave hurt feelings of frustration (and sometimes even betrayal) in the wake of their passing. But he only controls one instance, so at best it is only a test of what might work at a larger scale.

    That could work on support communities, but we don’t want to give potential new joiners too much of a waiting time before they can post or comment, this would increase the likelihood of them leaving.

    • OpenStars@piefed.socialEnglish
      1·
      9 days ago

      Right - definitely a problematic solution, needing to balance both the needs of the new users as well as the community overall. Perhaps a first-time poster could have a pop-up displayed with a message such as “You don’t intend to ask a question, take up people’s time to answer it, and then delete it once you’ve met your selfish need… do you?” :-P

      Perhaps another factor is how considerate people would not dream of doing so in the first place. But we are separating here the value of the user vs. the discussion that would subsequently be taking place. Admiral Patrick’s idea distinguishes between different classes of users: those most likely to contribute substantively to the Threadiverse, vs. those who are far less likely to. But it isn’t the user per se that is the issue, and rather only that particular category of action (deletion after having their singular question answered, probably by a lurker or even non-Threadizen that came here specifically for purposes of getting their needs met, then they bounce) that is the problem. However, Lemmy is extremely limited in its ability or even willingness to provide a solution for the latter (the action being the problem), hence his need to do such “out of the box” thinking and approach the problem from the perspective of the former (distinguishing those users being most likely to cause the problem). PieFed seems to offer a platform to deliver a real solution to the actual problem itself… like my aforementioned idea of a pop-up box displayed to first-time posters, although hopefully much better ideas can be thought up than that. :-D