Ultimately there is no good or bad, only fuck-all.
It’s wildly open to interpretation, really. IMO, it’s a bad thing if it’s under duress or force, or for the purposes of leverage, embarrassment, blackmail, etc.
Unless, of course, those are mutually enjoyable kinks, and there is prior consent and, usually, established boundaries and/or safe words, where applicable.
It’s fucking complicated.






I find it amazing that she can be so fucking tone deaf.
Like, wasn’t half of your entire best-selling series about equality/prejudice, you daft fucking terf? Pretty sure there was a whole lot about the unfair treatment of house elves and muggle-borns. Pretty sure that first antagonist we meet (aside from the Dudley’s) is a poster-child for Hitler Youth.