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Cake day: August 7th, 2023

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  • As someone who due to dealing with chronic pain and having to pick my grooming battles often looks like the most neckbearded, “tips fedora” ass reddit mod MF that ever lived. I can imagine at least a little bit.

    Like I’m not out here neglecting basic hygiene which is a step up from some of the people I’ve met. But shaving is definitely the first thing that gets dropped when my pain starts flaring up and then I start looking more and more like the kind of person that’s had a few too many “actually she’s a 3,000 year old vampire so it’s fine,” conversations.





  • This reminds me of a burn my wife gave to a random guy that decided to hit on her one day she was out running errands while I was taking care of the kids.

    Deadass just first thing out of her mouth after he hit her with the “I won’t tell if you won’t,” to her saying she’s married. “Ew, I’m gonna need you to tell me what about any of this (gesturing to her entire Butch Lesbian look) made you believe I was straight so I can immediately remedy it.” I almost felt bad for the guy for a second. Almost.


  • When bro is such a bro you completely forget he’s trans.

    My wife’s got a friend this happens with all the time. She’ll be talking to him and something about our oldest will come up. She’ll make some remark to him thinking he’ll relate, entirely forgetting that he had to transition so he didn’t experience whatever it was the same way.



  • EmptySlime@lemmy.blahaj.zonetoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.worldHorny🧠
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    9 months ago

    Eh, depends on the person. I’m ace and don’t really feel it mentally but my body will respond to things so I generally just find it to be an inconvenience. Though sometimes my partner and I get a good laugh about it because I’ll not realize it sometimes and she’ll notice before me.










  • EmptySlime@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneCamp Rule
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    9 months ago

    Do you know what “distinction without difference” means? It’s when you present two things as being entirely different when they function the same way. By treating what ICE is going right now as some new “distinct” thing and ignoring how it’s part of a broader issue you make it easier to ignore the whole issue.

    Say we win and ICE vanished tomorrow. What is there to stop Red States from just weaponizing the regular old carceral system to effectively continue the same policy? How do you fight against it when you were so bent on saying “No, this is different,” and everyone just shrugs because “Oh they’re getting due process now. What more do you want? They’re criminals,”

    You don’t have to say that this is some new horror we’ve never seen before to stress how bad what ICE is doing is. You’re actively working against yourself when you make ICE out to be some extraordinary aberration and not the natural progression of American policing.


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    9 months ago

    The fuck do you mean am I for real? Yes let’s compare this group of people getting arrested by “law enforcement officers” because “trust me bro, they’re criminals and need to be deported,” with this group of people being arrested by law enforcement officers because “trust me bro, they’re criminals and need to go to prison,” shall we?

    One group gets no trial, the other gets pressured into pleading guilty regardless of whether they actually did the thing they were arrested for, gets as little as 5 minutes with their public defender depending on the location, and can still end up losing everything even if they’re acquitted because of how long they were held for. Oh yeah, that’s due process alright.

    Of course ICE is the battle we need to fight right now, but let’s not fucking pretend that this is some fresh horror we’ve never seen before. They just feel like they can get away with being more bold with it because “they’re illegals” where they don’t feel that way with poor people yet. They still feel the need to pretend we get due process.